01 October, 2011

Well, it took me long enough...but just as we've moved, so has our blog! Follow our latest adventures and family updates at:


02 May, 2011

Is this goodbye?

Not to come across as too melodramatic, but in light of the fact that Abby hasn't updated here in a couple of months (it's been a lot longer than that for me), who knows what else will end up on this blog. Indeed, our time in Brazil is waning. India beckons, and with this knowledge we have neglected to give the proper props to Brazil before we leave. It is with this in mind that I compile a top 10 "Things I'll miss about Brazil" list. The top 10 list isn't about Brazil, it's about Brazil through my eyes. It's about how Brazil has affected me and the experiences it has afforded my family. So now, without further ado:

Top 10 things I'll miss about Brazil

10. Monitors. These are the people who watch your kids while you're at a restaurant eating a nice meal. Or at a kids' party and you want to talk with other adults. Or any other place where kids go. These people are paid by other people to watch my kids. My kids do activities with them, play with them, play with other kids while monitors.... monitor them. Monitors are great.

9. The food and drinks. I love picanha. There isn't a cut of meat on the planet that I'd rather have than picanha. For some reason, they don't cut it this way in the states. It's beautiful, tender and amazing. The kids will miss rice and beans with their meat. We'll miss the fresh mangos and papayas, the acerola juice and - for those of you who have visited Brazil before - the caipirinhas. Lime and sugar with cachaca. It's really amazing.
Capirinhas are good

8. The weather. With the exception of about 50 days a year, the weather is between abou 70 and 85 degrees here every day. Sure, it rains sometimes - usually in spurts of a week or two at a time - but I really don't think there's a single location in the US that has such regularly excellent weather. Maybe some part of California, but who wants to live in California? Correction: what teacher wants to live in California? No thanks.

7. Graded School. This is the place that brought us here. I will always be grateful to our first director, Rick Detweiler, for hiring us straight from the states. We have lots of friends who are making a career out of teaching and living overseas. Aside from the fact that we find ourselves moving to India in a couple of months, I don't have any reason to believe that we'll be making an entire career out of this. But either way, the opportunity to move on to such an amazing school in Mumbai (ASB - check it out) now is a product of having had the chance to work at Graded. The kids love their school, and we have some colleagues who are excellent, committed teachers and outstanding friends.

6. How Brazilians fix potholes. Seriously:


5. Beaches. I know, it's shocking that Brazil's beaches would be missed. But seriously, it's perfect beach weather about 300 days of the year, the beaches are beautiful, beachfront hotels are totally affordable, and beach food it freakin' good! What's not to love? I only lament that we didn't go more often. We've only been once with Stella, but she made it clear that she is not ready for beach life. So it's not our fault! I have a feeling we'll compare every beach we visit to Guaruja, Praia do Tombo, Ipanema and Leblon for the rest of our lives.

4. Zeli. Zeli is our nanny, and she loves our kids. She's so good at all the things she does for them, but most of all, she loves our kids. And most of all in loving our kids, she loves Stella. If I didn't trust her so doggone much, I'd be worried that she's going to kidnap Stella right before we leave and move back to Bahia in northern Brazil to live with her little blonde-haired, blue-eyed Brazilian "Baby 'tella", as she calls her. She cooks, cleans, and takes amazing care of our kids when we're at work... and on Friday nights so Abby and I can have a life, too. We'll have household help in Mumbai, but we won't have Zeli.

3. Athletics for the kids. Noah and Sophie get to spend their after-school time doing swimming lessons, ballet for Sophie, soccer for Noah, and a variety of other after-school offerings at Graded. The things they get to do at the Portal are things I have a feeling we'll recognize that we took for granted as soon as we move away. Zeli takes the kids to their activities once they get off the bus and they stay at the gramadao or parquinho playing until dinnertime. A high quality childhood if you ask me!

2. Friends. We have been blessed to live among friends that I can safely say we will stay in touch with for a really long time. While most of them are fellow North Americans (I'm trying to be inclusive of those strange Canadians here), many are Brazilians. There's even a Brit and a few Argentines that I'll miss quite a bit. Living in a situation like this definitely lends itself to counting on colleagues and neighbors for all of those friendship needs that can happen more organically elsewhere. Given that, we have been extremely lucky with the friends we've had here. That's ALL of us - kids included as the photo below shows! We'll miss most of them, though some are headed to Asia along with us.
Easter egg hunt at the Portal

1. Our home. Sao Paulo is a gigantic and ugly city that somehow manages to provide an adequate to good life for nearly 2o million people. In the midst of this gigantic and ugly place is the Portal do Morumbi, where the skies are always blue and the grass is always neon green. The trees are tall, the air is fresh, the pools are refreshing, and the club food is... well.... this place is almost perfect. For three wonderful years, our children have grown up here. I will always remember this Club Med oasis in the midst of a chaotic urban jungle. Aside from the great friends we have here, living in the Portal is the thing I will miss the most about Brazil.
Our Brazilian souvenir with mommy at the club

So there it is. Though Sao Paulo has its challenges - pollution, traffic, chaos and ugliness - these are things that go with the territory of living in many of the world's big cities. I suppose I could do a top 10 list of things I most assuredly won't miss about living here, but I that would imply that there are as many bad things as good things, and that just isn't so. It's been a great ride for three years. But we are excited and ready to move on to the next ride. Hello, Mumbai. We'll put a link up here sometime soon to a new blog. A blog that will capture our life in India. Who knows, maybe we'll even start it before we move to chronicle some of our preparations. And maybe we'll even update the blog more often than we have here lately! Time will tell. One thing we've learned for certain: you never know what lies ahead in life.

Tchau for now....

19 February, 2011

Happiness





The Cuteness is Overwhelming

Where does the cuteness end? Chubby thighs! Personalized bloomers! Sweet dress! *sigh*
I love this girl!

Same Story, Different Day

I think the "same story, different day" feeling is what is keeping me from blogging. I feel like our days, weeks, months are rather uneventful and therefore I don't have so much to say. I do know, however, that our families don't necessary feel that way or like that excuse, so I'll do my best. Here's a random smattering of events from the last month:

I returned to work! This has been a nice transition for our family. Sure, I don't LOVE being away from Stella all day, but she's in good hands. Our nanny is wonderful and Stella gets lots of love and attention all day. When I come home I find her on the playground and get several hours with her before bed time. It isn't easy, but it is the best of a working mom situation. Sophie is in school full-day now, so really it is just Stella with lots of undivided attention all day. When Noah and Sophie return home around 3:30 they are off to activities and Stella tags along. She loves it! She loves being out of the house and has gone so far as to crawl over to the elevator or her stroller when she's ready to take off! So, all in all, our days have found a new rhythm that is working well for our family right now.

Weekends! Of course, now that I am working everyday I love the weekends even more. Our weekend weather has been amazing and pretty much every Saturday and Sunday is spent at the Club. Stella loves to sit in the baby pool and splash around. She usually makes it 2-3 hours before she needs to come up and nap. Paul or I take her up and the other one of us gets to enjoy the pool with the "big kids" for a bit. Most weekends we only leave the Portal for the grocery store. I wouldn't have it any other way!

Carnival! Paul's parents arrive in just under two weeks. We are headed to Ushuia to walk with the penguins. Everyone's excited...and if I can get over my anxiety about traveling with Stella I will be too! Going to Patagonia is a huge dream of mine!

Thinking ahead! We leave Sao Paulo for good (or at least for several years) in June! Time is flying by! We'll be packing up our belongings and heading for India in no time. The kids are really excited (another family that lives here is headed to the same school) and we are starting to feel that way too!

Finally, some sweet pictures from the last few months...most are taken with my itouch, so excuse the quality!
Tub time with all three kiddos is one of my favorite times of day!


Our big girl eats dinner with us every night now!She stands up in her crib too!

Soph celebrated her fifth birthday! More to come on this...
Sweets for my sweet...Happy belated Valentine's Day!